Calling You——きみにしか聞こえない

不晓得这部戏什么时候在我电脑，为了要清理电脑，刚刚把它看完了。
是一部很好看的戏，讲述一个没有自信的女孩，通过心灵电话，遇到一个朋友。
这个朋友，使她的观点开始改变。
心灵电话……感觉是一个很荒缪，却有很稀奇的东西。
可是，她却遇到一个可以听她、懂她的人。
我当时，只觉得说，很酷！
因为听到他说话的人，其实是个聋哑人士。
这就是他们之间的心灵交流。
现实中，有多少人是真懂自己的呢？
有多少人，也可以像她那样，遇到知心的朋友？
心灵电话……心灵交谈……心灵交流……
感觉，还是很深奥。

《我的双脚献给爸爸》 ——みゆうの足(あんよ)パパにあげる

这是一部很感人的电影。
发觉自己真的超爱看亲情的戏。
みゆう虽然只是个四、五岁的小女孩，她的懂事却让我很感动。
男主角好幸福。
虽然病了，但他家人还是一直在他身边支持他、陪着他。
他老婆尤其让我感动。
虽然他的家翁、家婆跟她说应该去找另一条幸福的路，可是她的回答令我更无言。
看亲情的戏，最喜欢的，就是眼泪直流的感觉。
虽然纸巾一张换一张，但是心里的感动是最真实的。
也许，现实生活中，真地少了这些感动吧。
自己是个不太敢表达的人……
对家人的关心，常常到了口，却埂在喉咙说不出口。

奇怪的夢

發覺，最近很愛做夢。
夢的，都是一些奇奇怪怪的、有的沒的。
可能真的是“日有所思，也有所夢”吧。
回想起來，應該是上個月的夢境。

那天下午，很累，所以睡了一個午覺。
期間有一些夢，可是都沒什麽印象的。

我roomate的床就在我隔壁，我們的床是連在一起的。
我睡覺是平躺的，偶爾會抱抱娃娃或者枕頭。

睡到差不多要醒的時候，我感覺到我roomate躺下來。
我覺得自己睡飽了，是時候應該要醒起來繼續趕功課了。

可是不知怎的，突然覺得有一股冷冷的力量壓下來。
那冷冷的感覺，就像是半固體狀態的東西，很liquid的感覺。
我的手可以動到它、抓到它，所以我想把它抓離開我的身體。
可是，我身體好象僵硬了，不能動。

沒有害怕，沒有慌，只是想說，我需要快點起來做功課。
我感覺到我的手在我心口那邊，所以我就雙手合十，然後念佛號。
我竟然念了“南無本師釋迦牟尼佛”，一句我很少念的佛號。
平時我都只是念“阿彌陀佛”，也很少換其他佛號來念。

不知道念多久，大概沒有念很久吧，那種冰冷的感覺就消失了，而我也終于可以睜開眼睛了。
睜開眼睛的時候，我就看到我roomate躺在我隔壁看書。
這就證明我剛才的感覺沒錯。
可是我發現我的手是側放的，枕頭依然在，但並沒抱著。
而且我roomate說，沒看到我有什麽異樣，就只是睡著。

這就有點怪怪的了……
我很明顯感覺到自己合掌念佛……

總之，這又是一個怪夢。

Wild Children V: Culture Shock

You have read about Romulus and Remus whose culture shock came when they went back to the world of human beings after raised by a wolf. Tarzan's culture shock came when he discovered that he was not a "white ape" but a human being. Emily Carr preferred the culture of the First Nations people and the life she led on her explorations to the dresses and polite conversations of her own culture. You now know that First Nations culture did not include school or even business activity, people spent most of their time in nature or around the fire of their home talking, telling stories and making the things they needed to survive.

Psychologists tell us that there are four basic stages that human beings pass through when they enter and live in a new culture. This process, which helps us to deal with culture shock, is the way our brain and our personality reacts to the strange new things we encounter when we move from one culture to another. If our culture involves bowing when we greet someone, we may feel very uncomfortable in a culture that does not involve bowing. If the language we use when talking to someone in our own culture is influenced by levels of formality based on the other person's age and status, it may be difficult for us to feel comfortable communicating with people in the new culture.

Culture begins with the "honeymoon stage". This is the period of time when we first arrive in which everything about the new culture is strange and exciting. We may be suffering from "jet lag" but we are thrilled to be in the new environment, seeing new sights, hearing new sounds and language, eating new kinds of food. This honeymoon stage can last for quite long time because we feel we are involved in some kind of great adventure.

Unfortunately, the second stage of culture shock can be more difficult. After we have settled down into our new life, working or studying, buying groceries, doing laundry, or living with a home-stay family, we can become very tired and begin to miss our homeland and our family, girlfriend/boyfriend, pets. All the little problems that everybody in life has seem to be much bigger and more disturbing when you face them in a foreign culture. This period of cultural adjustment can be very difficult and lead to the new arrival rejecting or pulling away from the new culture. This "rejection stage" can be quite dangerous because the visitor may develop unhealthy habits (smoking and drinking too much, being too concerned over food or contact with people from the new culture). This can, unfortunately lead to the person getting sick or developing skin infections or rashes which then makes the person feel even more scared and confused and helpless. This stage is considered a crises in the process of cultural adjustment and many people choose to go back to their homeland or spend all their time with people from their own culture speaking their native language.

The third stage of culture shock is called the "adjustment stage". This is when you begin to realize that things are not so bad in the host culture. Your sense of humour usually becomes stronger and you realize that you are becoming stronger by learning to take care of yourself in the new place. Things are still difficult, but you are now a
survivor!

The fourth stage can be called "at ease at last". Now you feel quite comfortable in your new surroundings. You can cope with most problems that occur. You may still have problems with the language, but you know you are strong enough to deal with them. If you meet someone from your country who has just arrived, you can be the expert on life in the new culture and help them to deal with their culture shock.

There is a fifth stage of culture shock which many people don't know about. This is called "reverse culture shock". Surprisingly, this occurs when you go back to your native culture and find that you have changed and that things there have changed while you have been away. Now you feel a little uncomfortable back home. Life is a struggle!

这篇文章，是老师今天给的，尝试在网上找却找不着，所以就把它给打出来了。
发现，自己打字速度原来还算可以～
边看这篇文章的时候，就一直觉得它说的每一个阶段，我都好像经历过，第五阶段除外。

第一阶段，刚来韩国的时候。
刚开始的时候，其实也没什么感觉，因为只觉得被学长欺负了。
后来进入首尔大学念韩语课程的时候，才发掘出一些好奇心、新鲜感。

第二阶段，大概不到三个月吧。。开始想家了。

第三阶段，开始习惯了、适应了。
虽然不讨厌这里的生活，却也不怎么喜欢。
所以，每年只要有假期，都会想办法往家里跑一趟。
当作是充电也好，解思乡之苦也好。

第四阶段，除了上课、回家之外，觉得自己开始在混日子了。
懂得玩，懂得放松，不再那么紧绷。

至于第五阶段，我想，这要等我以后毕业回家才能知道了。

毕业照

今天是我们电子通讯电脑科生拍毕业照的日子。
当初看到名单上的人数，真的有点傻眼。
我的天呀~300多人！要耗多少时间才能拍完？
从早上将近10点，弄来弄去，大概下午3、4点才完成。
说真的，很累。
发现原来我真的很不适合拍照，太不会摆pose了啦~
整个人不是僵，就是呆。
好久没有装可爱拍照了，感觉整个人好尴尬，很好笑。

想起下午跟我们争着拍照的一组，我就气。
明明就是几个大男人，让我们女生先拍会怎样？
大家都一样一起等那么久，让我们一下下也不行噢？
（可能就是因为这样吧~可我们的编号明明就是比那组还要前面~干嘛不跟秩序走~）
奇怪丫~还摆个无辜的眼神给我们看，简直就是娘炮~~
真想给他们一拳下去！

这一组就算了，拍团体照的时候，还有一票更没风度的臭男生。
由于人太多，所以摄影师把大家分成三组来拍。
每一组都有分成三、四行，第一行的学生可以坐，后面的学生都用站的。
老实说，我们可惜没多少女生，以男生居多。
照理来说，男生应该有风度一点，让女生坐在第一行嘛。
第一组拍好了就轮到我们，这一票令我咋舌的家伙，立刻冲上第一行，一屁股的坐下去！
完全当我们女生是透明的，搞得我们女生尴尬的站在那边，不知该往后站还是找个位挤一挤进去算了。还好摄影师帮我们安排位子，不然真是……

没想到，除了“三字经”，我还可以只用一个字来骂人，就是“贱”！
简直超没风度！！丢尽韩国男生的脸啦！我真是气炸了。
可是我朋友说，拍毕业照原本就应该开开心心的，没必要跟这种人（没风度、没文化的咖）计较。
想想也对，常说“看别人不顺眼，是因为自己修养不够”，我的确没必要让自己变得没有修养啊~
唉~觉得自己的脾气越来越臭了……